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Diva Spotlight!!!



Lahesha Williams

Greetings Divas! I hope that your week has been productive! My week is just about to get better, as I am ready to introduce another fabulous Professional Diva that I have had the pleasure to meet…at least virtually. Today’s diva is Lahesha Williams from Chicago, Illinois. Lahesha, who has a degree in Information Technology (Networking), is an adjunct instructor at a local school’s Business Careers Program. In addition, Lahesha is the founder of Students Empowered, Inc., and Career Help for Christians. Both organizations seek to help individuals in career and professional development. Lahesha has graciously agreed to answer a few questions in the “Haute Seat.” Let’s get to know her better, shall we?!

Can you give a description of what you do in your current position?

Currently, I’m moonlighting as an adjunct Instructor at a local school in the Business Careers Program. I teach courses that help adults obtain any Microsoft Certifications. This role is great for me because I’m all about empowering people to be better in life, and how else can we impact the lives of others, other than by educating them.

Please give a summary of your resume, and how you landed at your current position.

My background includes more than 12 years of proven success in IT (Data Networks & Database Mgmt.), community outreach, project management, and career counseling. I worked with companies such as DeVry, Inc., Cisco Systems, Inc., and local Community Organizations.

My passion in life includes working with individuals to hone in on their potential to be a STAR in life! This is demonstrated by my current endeavors: Founder of a non-profit organization, Students Empowered, Inc. (high-school aged, student development non-profit organization); and Career Help for Christians (career and professional development blog/services).

What professional accomplishment makes you the proudest?

If I had to pick only one, it would definitely be the fact that I was recruited by Cisco Systems, Inc. before I graduated from my undergrad program – I had to negotiate my start date to begin AFTER I graduated! It was also a great accomplishment for me because I was a first generation college graduate (from a family who had only known poverty). So my children were able to see that hard work PAYS off ;-)

What is your advice for women who would like to enter into your profession?

Two things: 1) Outside of becoming an ‘expert’ in your discipline, you must take advantage of internships and volunteer opportunities. Be willing to accept roles that may not directly be attached to your education or goals if you do not have enough ‘relationship capital’ in your industry. 2) Learn how to be a great networker and connector of people – It’s so true that a lot of times, it’s not what you know, but who you know.

How do you balance you career with your personal life?

That is something I’m still learning how to do…but I am very intentional about MAKING TIME to enjoy life!

What do you do in your spare time?

What is that?? No really, I enjoy a good evening spent playing Bidwhist! I’m also a reader – I’m a fan of all things John Grisham, J.D. Robb, and most Christian living books.

Lahesha and Her "JOY"
What personal accomplishment makes you the proudest?

Hands down, the maturity level of my two wonderful Children! I call them my Pride (my son – 17 y/o) and my Joy (Daughter – 12 y/o). They are both so much like me, but in totally different ways from each other – if that makes sense.

My son is very academically driven, and a great athlete (Football – WR, Track, and bowling). He also takes his role as the only male in the household very seriously. If I had to categorize him, he would be one that uses the left side of his brain. My daughter is much more creative and free flowing in the way she processes things (a trait that my son and I love to have in the house!), she is a genuine lover of people, past their faults, actions and/or appearances. Oh, and she also LOVES to cook (I have NO IDEA where she gets that from!).

Where do you see yourself in the next 10 years, professionally and personally?

Professionally, one of my goals in life is to open a staffing agency, in 10 years I pray that it will be so.Those that know me personally, know that I am a Faith-Full person, unapologetically Christian. So one of my personal goals in life is to attend a seminary and work toward my MDiv!

What else do you want our readers to know about you and/or your career path?

A fact that I recently realized about each position I’ve held, it was because I volunteered at the agency or someone referred me for the position.

What is your favorite martini? 

I’m not a drinker any more, but when I did have a drink or two, I would order a Mojito Martini.

Whew! What a great interview with Lahesha! She hit on some very important career tips that current and soon-to-be Professional Divas should consider. The one that sticks out the most is the importance of volunteering and internships, which is a great way to learn more about your craft in the beginning of your career. It is also a great way to meet others in your profession. Lahesha shares many other career and professional development tips on her blog/service website Career Help For Christians. Please be sure to stop in, and take advantage of all the great professional advice…I stop by all the time!



 

Professional Diva Must Haves.....

Shellac UV Nail Polish

Divas…I think I’ve stumbled upon a solution for the common problem us women have with chipped nail polish two days after a manicure. But before I share my new find, I want to give you a little background information about me. Historically, I have always hated getting manicures. Back when I was in high school and college, I alternated between acrylic tips (don’t judge me), and my natural nails. Even then, I hated getting colored nail polish because it took too long to dry, and it would chip after two days…I hated it! So in my professional life, I resolved to forego acrylic tips and nail polish altogether. I would keep my nails trimmed low, and would only use clear nail polish. This routine guaranteed that I would not be embarrassed in a business meeting or at a conference due to the chipping polish on my nails.

Over the past few years, I continued with this “clear nail polish” practice…that is until 2 weeks ago. Right before I went on my mini vacation to Germany, I stopped by the nail salon for a quick mani/pedi. As I was sitting in the massage chair getting my pedicure, I noticed an advertisement on the wall for Shellac. I was curious as to what it was, so I asked the nail technician for more information. She told me that Shellac was a new UV Gel system that boasts long lasting nail color (2 weeks!) with zero chipping, and quick drying time. I’m always up for a new challenge, so I agreed to try Shellac


With the use of a UV Base Coat, UV Color Coat, UV Top Coat, and a UV Lamp, the nail technician transformed my “blah” nails into beautiful nails! And it only took her 10 minutes! You heard me right….10 minutes start to finish….I was dried and ready to go in 10 minutes! But here’s the real prize…the polish actually last for 2 weeks! No chipping, no dulling, no smudging. I washed my hands, hair, dishes, dog, etc., and there was no chipping. The polish stayed put! Needless to say, I am a fan, and I went back yesterday for a fresh color.
So, how does Shellac work? Check out this video...


And check out these before and after pics!



 There you have it! The Shellac system is my new best friend. I now feel confident in showcasing my polished nails in the office. In fact, I have received many compliments on my polish. I think you Divas should definitely try it out! For more information, check out Creative Nail Design’s website at http://www.cnd.com/Consumer.aspx.


New Day...New Design!!!

Good Morning Divas! And Happy Sunday! Today is an exciting day for me, as I am unveiling The Martini Chronicles’ new blog design. Over the past week, I have been working with a phenomenal blog designer who has transformed my little blog into a beautiful work of art. She did a fabulous job!  I am so anxious to share the new design with you all. Please come in, and take a look around. As always, if you have any suggestions, please email me and let me know (theprodiva@gmail.com). I hope you like it!

I bet you would like to know who the mastermind is behind this beautiful design. Well…..her name is Christina Jones, and she is the owner of Visual Luxe Graphic Design Studio. Visual Luxe specializes in logo and blog design, and also provides custom character illustrations, web graphics, flyers, business cards, and event invitations. The design process was ridiculously pleasant, easy, and fun, and I highly recommend Christina to anyone in need of an awesome graphic designer. Learn more about Visual Luxe Graphic Design Studio at http://visualluxe.com/.


Also, don’t forget to check out Christina’s blog, Being Mrs. Jones! Enjoy your Sunday!


Operation Relaxation…Courtesy of Germany



Last week, I had the pleasure of traveling to Frankfurt, Germany to attend my brother-in-law’s wedding. I was genuinely excited during the weeks leading up to our trip, as it meant four days off from work…I couldn’t wait! As our departure date drew near, I made sure that all outstanding “to-do” items were taken care of, both at work and at home. I dropped the dog off, responded to all pertinent emails, and prepped for a few things that needed to be taken care of in my absence. I got it all done! So I thought!

Once we boarded the plane, a familiar and unsettling feeling engulfed me…WHAT DID I FORGET! I immediately dismissed this feeling, and resolved that I would handle whatever I forgot once we landed in Germany. I had my personal BlackBerry, my work BlackBerry, and my iPad…I was all set! Can you imagine what happened next?

Seven hours and twenty minutes later, we landed in Frankfurt. That gave me seven hours and twenty minutes to make a mental list of all the things I forgot to do before we left, a list exclusively comprised of work things. Again, no worries! We got our rental car, and headed for Babenhausen. We arrived at the hotel, and I immediately headed for my electronics. And guess what…..NO SERVICE! BlackBerry 1 had no service…BlackBerry 2 had no service…and there was no Wi-Fi in the hotel for my iPad! What in the world was I going to do!?

I’ll tell you what I did…I relaxed! I’m absolutely certain that I could have found somewhere that had Internet access, but I declined.  Why? As a Professional Diva, I have the tendency to be a workaholic. I am always thinking about work, even when I’m not there. It is definitely not a good thing. The only thing worse would be stressing about my lack of electronics while I was visiting a beautiful country that I had never visited…that would have been a crime!

As professional women, we have to learn to enjoy ourselves minus the thought of work. What’s the point of working all of those hours, and not taking time to enjoy the fruits of your labor on vacation? There is none! Additionally, not taking time to relax and enjoy time completely away from work is the main ingredient in work-induced “burn out.” We work hard so we can play hard, and in doing so we have to force ourselves to let go.

And that’s what I did…I let it all go. Whatever didn’t get done would have to wait until my vacation was over. Period! Once I made this decision, which took all of 30 seconds, my vacation officially began. I enjoyed myself in Babenhausen: I ate, drank, and was merry, and I refused think about work until Monday morning when I returned to the office. I even had the chance to read a book while I was away, which I never have time to do anymore because of my busy work schedule. All in all, I had a fabulous time, and I returned to work refreshed!




The moral of this saga is that we Professional Divas must hold ourselves accountable for our own sanity, which includes getting away from work…completely away…no BlackBerries, no iPhones, no iPads, no laptops, no Internet, no Wi-Fi….you get the point! We deserve an electronic-free vacation. We earn it every day! So….when’s your next vacation?

Frankfurt, Germany

I'll Always Love My Mama...the Intruders Got It Right!!!

Happy Sunday Divas! And Happy Mother's Day! In honor of such a glorious day, I wanted to share one of my favorite "Mama" songs. This song is a little before my time, but I still love it! It is my pleasure to present (and introduce to some) the Intruders' I'll Always Love My Mama. The lyrics are on point, and the bass line always moves me. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do. Have a great Sunday, and once again, Happy Mother's Day!






An Ode To My Favorite Professional Diva!!!


On the eve of Mother’s Day, I would like to take a moment to pay homage to the original Professional Diva…my mother! Affectionately known as Boss Lady, this phenomenal woman was is the epitome of a Professional Diva. She has worked as a Registered Nurse for just about as long as I have been alive. She has always worked ridiculous hours...long and ridiculous hours…just so I could have the best in life…so I could get a first class education…so I could be great! I am not only her daughter, but I am her legacy.

 Throughout my life, Boss Lady instilled in me many of the professional values that I still carry with me today. How to dress for a job interview…How to network at a business/social event…How to match my pumps with my suits…you get the point! She’s the same woman who took possession of my diplomas from Kindergarten, Junior High School, High School, College, and Law School, and dared me to ask for them back. And I never did! After all, her hard work throughout the years made it possible for me to get an education, and become the Professional Diva I proclaim to be.

It’s not a secret that she is proud of me…every major professional accomplishment in my life was met with some sought of celebration. And with every celebration, I tried to make her understand that it is also a major accomplishment for her. No, she did not write the papers or take the tests, but she made it possible for me to be in the position to write the papers and take the tests. I would not be here without her hard work….and she knows it!



In addition to being a fabulous mother, Boss Lady is one of the most generous people I know. She is the head of the Community Service Department at her church, where she spends several hours feeding the homeless and collecting clothing and necessities for those in need. She believes that it is her mission to help others. She is effortlessly amazing!

In conclusion, I am what I am because of Boss Lady. In addition to being blessed with her physical features, I have also been fortunate enough to inherit her work ethic and her charitable heart. So without further adieu, I raise my martini glass to Boss Lady as I wish her a Happy Mother’s Day. You inspire me, and I love you!

5 Things I Love About My Little Blog: A Recap Before Vacation


Good Evening Divas! I hope that your Monday was just as splendid as mine…and I hope you have a fabulous and productive work week. As for me, I will be partaking in one of the necessary vices that all Professional Divas must experience in order to keep her sanity….VACATION! You heard me right! I am taking the rest of the week off, and heading to Europe! I am not ashamed to say that I need this break. In fact, all Professional Divas need to take time off to relax and regroup. It is never healthy to constantly work without taking time to play, and I am definitely looking forward to play time!

In the meantime, I wanted to share a few of my favorite Martini Chronicle moments with my fellow Divas. I am so proud of my little blog, and so grateful to all of its readers and subscribers. Since I won’t be around for a while, I hope that you enjoy 5 Things I Love About My Little Blog. Enjoy!


1. I have learned so much about myself since entering Corporate America. The Martini Chronicles is a reflection of the lessons that I have learned along the way. Two of my most valuable lessons have be balancing my professional and social lives, and learning how to deal with stress.  Check out two of my favorite posts! Balancing Your Professional and Social Lives and Stress and the Professional Woman.



2. Money is an essential aspect of our everyday lives. I like to share tips about money with my fellow Divas from time to time.  Check out 7 Quick Ways to Start Saving Money...Now and 7 Great Ways to Spend Your Tax Refund. Also, check out Dave Ramsey's Debt Snowball,and Suze Orman's Women and Money.




3. There are certain items that I sincerely believe that all Divas must have, and I love sharing them with you! See my opinion on the Classic Wrap Dress, and the Nude Pump


  4. Sports! I love them, and you all should be comfortably acquainted with them. Anita Jarman introduced you to the idea of improving your understanding of sports. Check out Introducing...Sports Break and A Diva's Guide to March Madness.



5. Last, but certainly not least, I am proud of my fabulous martini recipes. The names of the martinis may be common, but the recipes, with the exception of the Three Day Apple Martini, are all mine! I am especially proud of the Raspberry Lemonade Mojito Martini, and the Tiramisu Martini. Check them out, and let me know how they move you. Also remember that you can always check out the Martini Roll Call Page for a list of all my past recipes! And…..Drink Responsibly!


Thanks for visiting the Martini Chronicles! Have a fabulous week and weekend, and I will check in with you on Sunday!

Diva Spotlight!!!

The Caribbean Princess

Greetings Divas! It’s time to meet another Professional Diva! Let’s take a quick journey across the Atlantic to meet the Caribbean Princess. CP, or should I say Dr. CP, is a medical doctor and clinical lecturer from Trinidad and Tobago. She is currently working in the South of England where she specializes in Public Health and Epidemiology. She is also the author of a fabulous blog entitled “Musings of a Caribbean Princess,” and the Queen of Filofaxes! We put Dr. CP in the “Haute Seat” to learn more about her and her career. Here’s what she had to say:

Can you give a description of what you do in your current position?

I am a medical doctor and clinical lecturer. My specialty is Public Health Medicine and Epidemiology. Do not confuse epidemiology with dermatology though; the former deals with trends and patterns of disease in human populations, risk factors for disease, etc.; the latter deals with skin problems. My job is varied and very interesting. I have recently started a Ph.D. in Pharmacoepidemiology and Pharmacovigilance, which means I am carrying out studies which focus on the adverse side effects of specific drugs. 


Please give a summary of your resume, and how you landed at your current position.

I received my first degree (Bachelor of Medicine and Bachelor of Surgery) with Distinction from the University of the West Indies. I have two post-graduate degrees from the University of Oxford (an MSc (Research) in Clinical Medicine/Epidemiology, and an MSc in Global Health). I am a member of the Faculty of Public Health of the Royal College of Physicians in the U.K. Currently, I am on a prestigious National Institute for Health Research (NIHR) Ph.D. fellowship worth £251 000. I got both of these positions via really intense interviews! Oh, and I suppose being as amazing and charming during the interview as possible goes a long way. Maybe my Trinidadian accent is helpful?

What professional accomplishment makes you the proudest?

Winning a Rhodes Scholarship in 2003. It changed my life forever and brought me closer to achieving my academic dreams.

What is the one thing you know now that you wished you knew at the beginning of your career?

Not to focus on the detractors/haters, but accept constructive criticism. To not be afraid of failure. Also, to worry less, as with hard work you will succeed and things will work out. 


What is your advice for women who would like to enter into your profession?

To be themselves, be focused, and be confident, but not arrogant. Also to act as positive role models for women who are coming up the career ladder instead of trying to knock them down. There is room for ALL of us!! Last, dress to impress for yourself! Never look sloppy. Trust me, dressing well sets a good tone for the day.

How do you balance you career with your personal life?

Sometimes I find it difficult to balance both. It helps to be organized and to recognize that fun time or down time is just as important as work deadlines.

What do you do in your spare time?

I have a blog called Musings of a Caribbean Princess, which represents the girly aspects of my character which I may not always be able to show in my work environment. I enjoy blogging and writing helps me unwind from work.  I also do scrapbooking and enjoy going out with my wonderful husband and friends. I am a keen shopper and I love all things fashionable and stylish. 

What personal accomplishment makes you the proudest?

Moving away from my home of 24 years (Trinidad and Tobago), and starting a new life in a foreign land (England). It required a lot of courage, which I didn't realize I had. Also meeting my soul mate at Oxford and getting married. My wedding day was one of the happiest days of my life.

Where do you see yourself in the next 10 years, professionally and personally?

Still married to my hubby, possibly with children. I would like to be a well established Professor of Public Health and Epidemiology doing internationally recognized research which makes a difference to people's lives.

Dr. CP and Her Twin Sister
What else do you want our readers to know about you and/or your career path?

I have a slightly offbeat sense of humor from reading too many Mad magazines as a child and training in medicine.  I have a fraternal twin sister who has 11 month old fraternal twins, which scares the life out of me! I LOVE FILOFAXES!!

Medical academia is a long drawn out career path and it is important to build a good reputation. It requires very hard work. Although I have to work in a highly pressurized environment I find my career very rewarding.

What is your favorite martini?

I don't drink alcohol (gasp!) Sorry. It leaves me with more money for designer handbag and filofax shopping!

Additional Comments?

I shall leave you with this quote by Theodor Seuss Geisel

“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.”

And my own quote:

“Stay true to yourself, your hopes and dreams and you will be happy.”


Those quotes say it all! Special thanks to Dr. CP for agreeing to be featured in the Diva Spotlight. If you have any question for Dr. CP, please leave her a comment below. Also, be sure to check out her blog Musings of a Caribbean Princess.
 
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